“I am extremely grateful to Gillian for the priceless coaching/ mentoring I have received; it’s just been mind blowing. I never could have imagined the difference it has made to my life to understand how our experience of reality is created through thought in the moment…
One of the areas we worked around was bereavement.
My younger brother passed away unexpectedly 2 ½ years ago. I wasn’t having coaching from Gillian at that time and after he died I was in a dark place for 6 months, feeling unable to move on or go back to work (I’m a self-employed Dyslexia Coach so this had a huge effect on my business). I just couldn’t accept that someone so young (he was 45 years old) could suddenly not be around anymore and felt devastated for my parents as well. I guess I took on their grief too. I got stuck in the pain and upset of this major shock. I kept thinking “we all plan our future and he hasn’t got a future now yet he had so much more to give”.
7 months ago another brother passed away and this time I was being coached by Gillian…
I had already begun to understand how my moment-to-moment thinking was creating my experience, rather than my circumstances dictating how I felt. Although I was naturally saddened by his death, the whole grieving process was different. I accepted what had happened and understood it was his time to go. Gillian’s questions helped me move to a place of clarity and strength and I found I was really in touch with my spirituality. This time I was back into the routine of my life within 3 weeks, knowing it was OK to feel sad or happy without letting those feelings stop me in my tracks.
Sadly my Dad has just passed away 6 weeks ago and this time with all the knowledge and support from Gillian, I have continued with my life knowing my Dad’s energy is always by my side and I have not lost him. I feel the warm glow of his being will be with me always. Yes I miss him but I have no need to dwell on “if only” and have a deep acceptance and peacefulness with his passing.
This “Inside-Out” understanding has touched other areas of my life, most noticeably with my children and family.
I can totally say I unconditionally love my children and understand they are on their own journey where now I can allow them to be and explore whoever they are with ease. My relationship with them has totally transformed. I also accept my family members for who they are, and where they are, and no longer get caught up and react to their “stuff”!
So, in a nutshell…
- Thanks to Gillian I understand bereavement and do not fear death.
- As a result of Gillian Coaching I have more fulfilling relationships with my 3 children and that’s priceless.
- Thanks to Gillian I now live an effortless life & nothing fazes me….. It’s a remarkable place to be.
Gill, You know me from the Inside-Out” !
“When I contacted Gillian I was tired of being stuck in a place with grieving and was ready to live again. Working with Gillian over a period of 7 sessions I’ve now moved on and am living my life a lot more. I’ve discovered how to let go and accept and different relationship to the people who have gone and I now remember my friend with love”.
Pauline Scott, Manchester